well.. that's why I gave you the other link.. it contains programming guides for 4.1.3. And it's essentially the same.. there's a few new AXL commands, but other than that, things really don't change (the XML features on the phone are set by the phone load, not the call manager release).
Just check out the documentation, then if you can point to something that's effectively missing, we can point you in the right direction.. but don't just presume because it says SDK 4.1.1 that you need a newer version (there is none! the sdk has always lagged behind the ccm version but since there are updated PDF's, that's really not a problem)
Are you getting this error “Installer User Interface Mode Not Supported. The installer cannot run in this UI mode. To specify the interface mode, use the -i command-line option, followed by the UI mode identifier. The value UI mode identifiers...
The below trick might come handy when you have to add a new node to a cluster but you don't have or is unsure of the security password for the publisher. This procedure has been around for ages.
1) Login into the CLI of the Publisher.