I don't believe it is possible to use Ethernetchannel to load balance between servers. So, that is not an option.
I also believe one needs to use the Native IOS on the 6500's to make use of IOS SLB. This is probably your best option. I have had some experience with IOS SLB on the 6513 and I think it is great.
Alternatively, you can always purchase a dedicated load balancing device or Cisco's CSS add-on resulting from their Arrowpoint purchase.
-Tim